I had a certain feeling of deja vu this afternoon as the rain poured down on our first day of the series. We experienced such weather during our April series. There is something so conducive to a rainy day restorative practice. So welcome all to your post-game wrapup (it is football season!). This blog is your “Go To” place for the poses, the breath, meditations, journal questions and much much more. Stay awhile, browse and visit often. Check out a recent video of Jillian Pransky in a previous posting.
Diaphragmatic Breath (Fancy way of saying Belly Breath
The diaphragm is the primary engine of the breath. As we inhale, this domelike muscle descends toward the abdomen, displacing the abdominal muscles and gently swelling the belly. As we exhale, the diaphragm releases back toward the heart, enabling the belly to release toward the spine.
Very calming breath for your nervous system and may also increase the amount of oxygen you get into your body. Begin with a few breaths and continue to increase. As in any breath, if you begin to feel dizzy or lightheaded, stop. Soon with continued practice, this may be the only way you breathe.
*Poses can be held anywhere from a few minutes up to 20 minutes. I suggest that you begin with a shorter duration. Allow time for adjusting.
Forward Fold with Chair
Benefits: calming, gently stretches lower back, nice transition from the days activities. A good pose to do if you need a few minutes break from your daily work, easy to do and easily accessible. Good for headaches. Breathing is easier since muscles of the respiratory system are relaxed.
Props: chair, 2-4 blankets
- Someone you love
- Some you may have difficulties with
- To all beings everywhere
- To your heart
And a final meditation:
Meditate and reflect on your heart center, acknowledge how it feels. Is it open/closed, receptive/defensive? Repeat the Metta meditation.
May I be happy
May I be peaceful
May I be safe from harm
May I enjoy happiness and the root of happiness
May I experience ease and wellbeing in mind, body and spirit
Journaling allows people to clarify their thoughts and feelings, thereby, gaining valuable self-knowledge. It’s also a good problem solving tool. Journaling about traumatic events helps you process them by fully exploring and releasing the emotions involved and by engaging the hemispheres of the brain in the process, allowing the experience to become fully integrated in one’s mind. The health benefits of journaling have been scientifically proven.
- decreases symptoms of asthma, arthritis and other health conditions
- improves cognitive functioning
- strengthens the immune system
- counteracts the negative effects of stress
Steps to Journaling Successfully
- Buy a journal. This may seem simple but what kind of journal you purchase is important. Blank pages versus lined pages or perhaps even journaling on your computer. There are many on-line options. Use your book to reflect your creativity or go with function first.
- Set aside time. One of the most difficult of parts of journaling. It’s important to block off about 20 minutes each day to write. Is it the morning you prefer to start you day or in the evening, to wrap up the day. And maybe the only time you have is during a lunch break. Take whatever time you get.
- Begin writing. Don’t think about what to say, just begin writing, and the words should come. If you really need help, here are some topics you can begin with:
– dreams, possible purpose in life, childhood memories and feelings surrounding them, where you would like to be in two years, best and worst days of your life, if you could have three wishes, what are you grateful for……..
- Write about thoughts and feelings. As you write, just don’t vent. Write about your feelings, but also about your thoughts surrounding the emotional events. Relive events, and try to construct solutions and ‘find the lesson’.
Keep your journal private. If you are worried that someone else may read it, you may self-censor and you won’t achieve the same benefits from writing. Lock away the book or if using a computer, password protect it.
Lastly, some tips for writing:
- Aim to write at the same time each day
- Reread the entries
- Notice patterns in your writing
- Writing for 20 minutes is ideal but if you have only 5 minutes, use it.
- If you skip a day, or 3, just keep writing when you can
- Don’t worry about grammar or neatness
- Try not to self-censor, let go of ‘shoulds’ and just write what comes.
THE JOURNAL QUESTION OF THE WEEK
Outline two or three personal goals or intentions for yourself and investigate the deeper purposes for these goals. Ask yourself why for example you may want to lose weight, or quit smoking. Do these goals or intentions feel heartfelt and sincere?
Bring these goals or intentions into your yoga practice, say them silently to yourself, write them on little sticky notes, place them on your bathroom mirror, in your purse; wherever you can see them as a gentle reminder. Try meditating on them after doing a restorative pose when the mind is clearer. Write them down in a fruit-scented pen so you will not only want to read them but draw all of the senses to them.